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Settling in process: A Guide for New Parents and Children
Starting nursery school is a significant milestone, not only for your little one but for you as a parent. It’s a time of mixed emotions—excitement, anticipation, and perhaps a little anxiety. At Phileas Fox Nursery School, we understand that the transition into nursery life can be a big step for both children and parents. To help make this process smoother, we’ve put together some helpful tips on settling in.
1. Manage Expectations
It’s important to set realistic expectations for the settling-in period. Every child is different; while some may take to nursery immediately, others may need a bit more time to adjust. As a parent, it’s normal to feel apprehensive, but try to keep in mind that it’s okay if your child doesn’t settle in right away. Be patient and trust that your child will find their rhythm in their own time. Your nursery teachers are here to support both you and your child through this transition.
2. Leave for a While but Come Back
During the initial days at nursery, it’s helpful to practice leaving your child for short periods before gradually extending the time away. This teaches your child that while you may leave, you always come back, which helps build their sense of security. It will also give your child an opportunity to start building secure bond with their key person. Our teachers will work with you to create a tailored plan that ensures your child feels safe and reassured during these early days.
3. Remain Positive and Reassuring
Children are highly perceptive and can pick up on your emotions. If you’re anxious or worried, your child might feel the same. Instead, try to remain upbeat and positive when talking about nursery. Emphasise the fun activities they’ll do and the new friends they’ll make. When you drop them off, offer a warm hug and a confident goodbye, letting them know you’ll see them soon. Your confidence will help them feel more secure.
4. Trust the Nursery Staff
The staff at Phileas Fox are dedicated professionals who are passionate about early childhood education. They understand the complexities of settling in and are experienced in helping children feel comfortable and secure in their new environment. Trusting the nursery staff is crucial—they’re here to help, and they have your child’s best interests at heart. If you have any concerns or questions, don’t hesitate to speak with them. Open communication with the nursery team will ease your mind and help your child feel more at home.
5. Call and Check Up
It’s perfectly normal to want to know how your child is doing throughout the day. We encourage you to call and check in if you’re feeling uncertain. Our staff are happy to provide updates and reassure you that your little one is settling in well, or if they have had enough for the day. Knowing how your child is progressing can help you feel more comfortable with the transition, and it gives you the peace of mind that they’re in good hands.
Settling into nursery school is a journey, and every child (and parent) experiences it differently. At Phileas Fox Nursery, we’re here to support you every step of the way and help your child adapt to their new environment with confidence and ease in no time. It is just the beginning of an exciting adventure in learning and growing together!
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